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Keeping the promise; Firstly know yourself. There is a core traits that runs through all good fathers and good 'fathers to be' on which we recognize and acknowledge each other... i. Of course that we are men, ii. We connect on feeling of love from the heart with each other, with mother earth and all animals plants and fish of creation, iii. We are driven by street smart excellence in action for good, and against bad, [sounds foreign to some, then all you have to do is look at movies, particularly hollywood products, that understand this well and aim the movies at us. The same issues above run in the themes repeatedly and you will note that the colour bright red is included in background of many scenes which happens to be a colour most of us like. Another repetitive theme is most women run the image that they are 'good, naive and vulnerable' needing our protection and help. Unfourtunately it is far from this when you look at the real world around us and really see through all the made-up image and deceit at the plain truth ...] So, the only issue then is to learn further on '''Street smart excellence''' and how to put this into action even more effectively.... Welcome brothers; Let us keep our promises to our brothers and children and our true mother, mother earth; If you arrived at this line through each of the pages of this website in sequence, you will note one point; that so far no scientific information has been given. Reason; The skill to access and use both our emotional and logical responses in balance to any situation, in this case father-child care and relationship, is essential to developing a healthy and meaningful relationship with our children and for that matter...any child, we care about all of them. Dont be fooled, it is a learnt skill to access both the logical and emotional side of our brain to respond to the same situation, and to find the balance in between these and with how our bodies  are 'feeling' to the situation, to determine our action to situation. We do this everyday without realizing it... its time to bring it into conscious action... I have used the right side of my brain's cerebral cortex (elaborated later) ... which works with non-logical issues such as 'emotions' to situations and people, 'feelings' to objects and other people, and assessing emotional or feeling driven actions we witness in others particularly our children whom till about the age of 6 are mainly working on the right side of the brain, and like... yep, page on 'promise'... The logical side, the left cerebral hemisphere of brain, sees and assesses the situation in terms of facts of situation, time sequence of events from initiation to current state, time, day, numbers, and goal setting and assessment of gain and loss, and like, ie the current common language understanding to when one says the person is an 'adult'... imagine a court room with you sitting as a judge, you are using your left side excessively and unbalanced, as legal process take a lot of effort to remove the right side of brain from the issues to assess...makes for 'impartial' decisions' its claimed... and this is important later when we deal with how women differ with us in assessing the same situations, and so to coming to a decision to what action in response to it eg verbal, movement, body language, and how to predict what the actions might be... again, this skill is important to apply in our relationship with our children, and all children... we love them all for what they are, 'pure' human form... So the obvious place to start will be anatomy of the brain, and which whatever is contained within our skull, then follow with how and why the brain functions the way it does, and finally relate all that anatomy-functioning to real time 'our real life' experience, before we get to where we should be in terms of functioning effectively... yeah '''street smart excellence'''... However, '''street smart excellence''' includes a third component...our spiritual awareness... it is an essential part of our existence. Simply, if you believe that after you die then its 'nothing' then you are starting from a spiritually ground zero. If you on the other hand believe that we exist as a combination of the physical body and soul, both needed to co-exist for us to be 'alive', and when we die its just the body... and the soul continues its journey back to its creator, and the relationship with the creator and the nature of this relationship with our creator on earth and then afterlife requires our 'spiritual eye' to be opened to really understand this and where each of us are on the path of spiritual awareness and realize that no one is better or worse where ever we are... its important here because childrens spiritual eye is wide open... A final point, that for effective elaboration of a scientifically 'heavy' material to an 'common decent person' language, the word 'children' will be divided further into groups of 6 to 12 years of age, and under 6 years of age, their brain function is dramatically different in these groups and so how we fathers connect and relate with children will be very different in between these groups. After 12 years of age, they are effectively 'little adults', and so we are able to understand and interact with them more like we do with other adults bar for their lack of experience with life which puts them at greater risk of running into 'places where even angels fear to tread'...let alone us fathers, and fathers to be, fear to tread... 6 years and under is the crucial years and if we handle this with '''street smart excellence''' will result in a strong and healthy and growing fatherchild relationship which will last through all time...